What a Relief
Sunday, November 8th, 2009Last night, it was my Big Boss’ birthday. We were invited to attend and since he is our boss, my colleagues and I decided to join. It was a Sunday and was supposed to be a family day. I had to meet my friend somewhere so we can go to the party together. After going out with my family, I did not have the time to change. I was in my usual normal day-to-day attire. I was worried but when I saw my friend wearing the same thing, I got relieved a little. I could picture in my mind the people wearing formal party attire and I would really be out of place. But when I saw the celebrant, he was not wearing a men’s tuxedo or something formal. Whew! I was very relieved or this could have been one of my most embarrassing moments.
This is Moses. He is my cousin and he has Down syndrome. It means a condition of a child in which extra genetic material causes delays in the way a child develops, both mentally and physically. I remember he had an open-heart surgery when he was still a baby. I really could not give out his medical history because I was still young at that time as well. He lives in another place so I only see him when his mom would come to our hometown for a vacation and it is not very often too.. The last time I saw him was a few years ago. And honestly I don’t know how old he is right now. All I remember was I was able to baby sit him when he was still a baby. I could remember him as very tiny. Just recently, I saw his picture in facebook. I was amazed at how big he is already. And most of all I was surprised that he has such a great talent in painting. A thing that I never knew was in our family. Because I don’t have that. The last time I saw him, though he was already 6, 7 or 8 years old then, he was not able to talk yet. He can only say a few words, now I just cannot help it but be proud of him, I know there are a lot who is more talented than him. No doubt about it. But since he is my cousin, and he is a member of my family, I will always be proud of him. For me, he is still the best.

