Here is another way to keep your man.
Make sure that you hold hands when in public. It should always be obvious that you are in love. This sends a string message to others-including your children- and it makes you feel good about each other. Holding hands can benefit both you and your partner. You will have that sense of security and you feel that you are always safe and at the same time, he would feel he is needed and that you depend on him. This would make him feel in control.