Modern Furniture is something that I wanted to have. But more than that, I wanted to have a home. I may have everything in our house, but if I don’t have peace, love and harmony in our house, that would still not compliment everything. An absence in any of my loved ones would bring so much sadness in our home and no expensive furniture could replace that. I was watching Glee and in one of their episode, I was touched by Home. A house would not be a home without love and the person you love living in it. So now, I have reduced my standard of having a beautiful home. It’s not about the furniture but it’s the people living in it. The kind of love you share with each other. The happiness you have having each other around is what matters. Wherever there is laughter ringing, someone smiling someone dreaming, we can live together there, because love will be our home. Wherever there is children shouting and playing, no matter how messy your house will be after, we can live together there because love will be our home. This is easier said than done. And it takes a lot of patience though. But at the end of the day, when you lay down your bed before you go to sleep, you think. Do I have everything I want or have everything I need? Then it would not be hard anymore.

My husband is going to Singapore tomorrow. I would not be able to see him for 6 days. I know I will be left with the kids at home and as early as now, I am trying to figure out on how to get rid of my boredom since I will be sleeping in our room alone. Getting a Slingbox maybe and watch TV the whole time. I am on leave from work and I promise myself that I leave all office work at work. I hope I won’t get tempted.

Falling in love is easy. But staying in love is what counts. I always say it. This is so true. You have to learn to accept that the man that is beside you in bed has bad breathe every morning. You have to accept that he often forgets to say I love you, or kiss you goodbye when he leaves the house. Loving him and showing him that you accept him no matter what is what’s keeping the love. Your man don’t need vigrx. It won’t matter anymore. What matters is he just be himself and let you love him that way you wanted to and vice versa. It’s not easy. But practice makes it perfect.

May is a very busy month for me. There is our Company Outing and my family is reunited after a very long time. So I can’t help it but take pictures as many as I can to keep the memory alive. Its good I have an online backup to keep all my files. I believe it’s the safest way to keep them.

I suddenly became a match maker when one of my close friends asked me if I have a single friend that is open to dating. I know of a few so I gave him their numbers. I kid around and told him “Go and get to know them. But don’t marry them tomorrow.” There are some people who take life seriously and think that if a guy asks you for a date, you’re going to marry him the next day. You can actually try to meet black people and date them. Get to enjoy yourselves in the getting to know them better. Once you’re ready, you can move on to the next stage. Eventually you will get there. Just hang on singles and don’t rush. It’s not a matter of who will be the first to get married but a matter of who will end up happily married.

Mr. Johnson heard a friendly knock at his front door. It was his neighbors, Mary Beth, with a panicked grin on her face. She had some guests coming for dinner in less than two hours and needed to borrow a cup of sugar to finish her pecan coffeecake. As always, Mr. Johnson was more than happy to lend from his cupboard. The next morning Mary Beth was back on his front porch with a more relaxed smile. “Mr. Johnson, I want to thank you for the cup of sugar last night. I saved some coffeecake just for you,” she said as she handed him a large platter. Since Mr. Johnson’s wife had passed away earlier in the year, Mary Beth had tried to minister to him in special ways. She would often have her children take over fresh-cut flowers from the yard or a plate of chocolate chip cookies she baked after school. Their family had invited him to the park to fly a kite and to catch lightning bugs in their backyard. These were simple things, acts of kindness that meant so much to Mr. Johnson.

God ha a plan behind every situation in your life…even when borrowing sugar from a neighbor. Romans 8:28 tells us that God works together for good all those that love him. There are no coincidences in God’s eyes, only divine appointments. Be ready to bless whomever God places in your life today with a heart that flows with love.

Lord, I am ready to be your servant of kindness today. Touch my heart to those near me who may need a prayer or an encouraging word. Help me to reach out in my community and reflect Your love for your people.

I have lots of single friends at work. I seldom become their shock absorber when they have crushes and all. Sometimes people come to me and ask for some advises on how to make a relationship work or something. It’s not because I am a love doctor or something like that, but it’s because I am married and being one made my single friends think that I am an expert. I just let them be. But for those singles who is desperate to get into a relationship, I usually recommend to them www.connectingsingles.com. I understand them because I was a single once. It made me feel happy if I am able to help out a friend. I love it especially when I make my friends happy. Most often than not, I get excited every time I have a friend who falls in love. But I also would make sure that I would also be around if they feel down as well. Make advises ready for them in case they need it already. I just love the feeling that my ideas and advices are needed and would always count. Or by simply being there and just listen. It gives me a different kind of satisfaction and fulfillment.

This coming July, my husband and I will be celebrating our 12th wedding anniversary. Though it’s still early, I am already thinking of a gift that I would give my husband on that day. I need to plan ahead because I need to save for it as well. I am thinking of buying him a Casio G Shock watch. He wanted to buy himself one for quite sometime already. He always stops by the watch section every time we go to the mall. I know that he is dying to own one already. He would really be surprise if I get him one this coming July as my wedding anniversary gift for him.

You can never joke about marriage. You really have to be totally 100% ready before you say yes to it. Once you are sealed with marriage, there is not getting out. No matter how much money you spent for your wedding day, or all the wedding favors the world can give, cannot guarantee a happy marriage if there is no trust and love. Make sure that you really, truly love the person you’d marry before you say yes. Be ready to spend the rest of your life with the person and get ready to accept the undesirable things you will discover along the way.

Live each day to the fullest, making it count. Living this way will help you to live and grow to be incredible, fulfilled woman. Make everyday count. When you practice living a joy-filled life, giving to and serving others, you are pleasing to God. And your husband will be a new man. Learn and practice enjoying the simple things in life. When, in the end, you have walked hand in hand with your husband through the roads of life and you truly love each other, you will find everything you need. The tips created in this 101 ways to keep your man is not created to keep a man that is not meant for you. The tips here are created for husbands and wives who needs tips on how to keep thier love alive and would want to stay in love…